Welcome to JohnKuypers.com

John Kuypers is a leadership expert and couples coach.  He teaches people how to influence others by focusing on the present and being non-judgmental.

He consults, trains, coaches and speaks to middle managers at work, the toughest role in the organization.  He also helps couples communicate respectfully using a powerful tool called Who's The Driver?

His work is based on helping people be more present in their daily lives. 
John is the author of What's Important Now: Shedding the Past So You Can Live in the Present, and The Non-Judgmental Christian: Five Lessons That Will Revolutionize Your Relationships.
His work helps people make a continuous shift towards a happier relationship with self, with loved ones and with God.

What is it to be present? 
It is to accept the moment as it is.  You are good enough as you are in this present moment. Your past doesn't define you.  Your future can be anything. 

It is a paradox of life that the more you accept the moment as it is, the more you are able to adapt and change to meet life's challenges.   It works because you stop being afraid, tense or anxious.  You see clearly and you decide courageously to do what's important now.

John Kuypers serves people who want more love from their life and are willing to invest in themselves for that purpose.  The peace that surpasses all knowing is available to each of us, by having faith and trust in God's promises, and in your personal commitment to seeking to love and be loved in all aspects of your life.

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Learn more about John Kuypers' many tools, programs, books and solutions:

www.whosthedriver.com
An agreement strategy two-day, one-month retreat for couples of faith to resolve sensitive issues and be happier.

www.presentliving.com
Books, CDs, coaching services for people who want to master their inner self.

www.performanceshift.com
Organization and Leadership solutions for mid-size business owners and middle managers.

www.7performancedrivers.com
A leadership communication tool for coaching and training mid-level leaders and business owners.

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The Serenity Prayer

O God, Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time.
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as he did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it.
Trusting that he will make all things right if I surrender to his will;
that I may be reasonably happy in this world
and supremely happy with him forever.  Amen.
          
 Attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)